FOUR little FULTONS: remembering

Monday, September 8, 2008

yesterday....

OK, I forgot to add to their blog yesterday & wish all the Grandma's & Grandpa's a "Happy Grandparents Day". Yes, Yesterday was "their" day! I had all intentions to get my act together & give all their grandparents a little something from the babe's BUT time escaped me & I am giftless writing a belated post. OOPS! Maybe I will make today honorary Grandparents day & do something special today! Not a day goes by that we do not think of Grandma M aka "Grammy", Nana, Papa Bill, Grandpa Buck & lest us not forget Grandpa M in heaven. I cannot believe that it will be a year this week that the good Lord took him from us! If you ask the babies where he is they will either point up to the sky or better yet their chest to say that he is in their heart. It is my hope that they never forget the short time they had with him! It is weird how the circle of life works. My Grandfather on my Dad's side died when my oldest brother Jim was 7 months old. My Dad was his "baby". So he lived to see his baby have his first baby. Now fast forward 49 years and my Dad lived to see his baby, me, have my first baby well we all know it's babies but you get the drift. My children were 8 months old when he died. TOO weird! I cannot believe he is gone. I think he watches them from above & is proud of them & me. I hope!! SO, to all you grandparents I hope that you had a VERY special day...

yesterday....

Tuesday, September 2, 2008

once in a lifetime moment....

I FINALLY have a picture of the babies & me to share! I am usually the one taking the pictures & video so I never get to be in any of them. This picture is EXTRA special since they all actually climbed up in my lap to sit with me at the SAME time. hahah! Thank you daddy for caputuring this moment for me! I can hardly remember what it was like gaining the 86 lbs during my pregnancy & then having to carry all four of them around. It takes moments like this for me to remember. It is AMAZING how such a wild ride can be so distant in my mind. That I can actually say that I almost do not remember how difficult it was to get up & down or even sleep toward the end of my pregnancy or better yet how much my feet swelled & hurt after giving birth. If I was a crazy women I would ALMOST want to have another but I am sane & happy with the family I have. Happy that our babies are HEALTHY & that they complete us. I cannot remember what it was like BEFORE kids. TOO weird!! I must say that I do know that carrying 15lbs of baby is MUCH different than carrying what they weigh now!! I really treasure moments like this! They do not come around that often! Thank you for letting me share my...

once in a lifetime moment....

Our Story...

Ok I am now over 8 years into this "job" of mine, being a mommy to multiples, high order multiples to boot! They say that if you try to conceive without protection for one year with no success then you are infertile. Those words were a lot to take in. I sought answers from everyone. We started out with our 1st OB/GYN Dr William Casale doing the normal testing that they were equipped to do. We did it all, IUI's, spermwashing, etc. I then contacted RESOLVE, a wonderful organization for people like me (could not get pregnant). I started making mental notes of what I needed to achieve my dream, to be a mom! The next step was to go see a Fertility Doctor. We chose to see Dr Mark Denker. After checking me out he then referred Michael to see a Urologist who ended up putting him on clomid. Yes, men can take this RX too! It helps make more sperm just like it helps a woman create more follicles. It is AMAZING the things you learn when you are trying to conceive! After further testing we were both told we had fertility issues, I had fewer eggs than a woman my age & they were "tough", Michael had double vericasils so that in order for us to have the "best odds" we needed to go the IVF route. I had this feeling that it was not going to work right away, call it my intuition. So we bought a package, can you even believe that they sell "packages" like a travel agency? Our "package" included 3 rounds of IVF with ICSI, minus all the meds I would need. The drugs are an expense we did not even think of but had to purchase for this entire thing to work. Well, it ended up taking all 3 rounds of IVF & accupuncture courtesy of Dr Susan Schiff for me to get pregnant & boy did I get pregnant! (Trust your intuition!) We started out with very few follicles, only 3 fertilized into embryo's and all three took. I was finally pregnant! 8 weeks into my pregnancy one of the embryo's split & became identical. Can you believe that!? What are the odds? No one told me that could happen! AMAZING! We had a lot of decisions to make. No one thought that we should keep all four. In the medical world it is called a "selective reduction". Only a few doctors even do this procedure. We did not know what our future would hold just that we could not reduce anything! In the beginning we had a hard time finding a doctor that felt like we did & wanted our four babies to thrive! We finally found Dr Moises Virelles, a fellow Christian & my now OB/GYN. He then referred us to an AWESOME Perinatologist, Dr Gary Cohen. Having the two of them on our side we knew ANYTHING was possible! My pregnancy was really uneventful. I was put on "bed rest" at 22 weeks. I later found out my "bed rest" was unlike other women's bed rest. I was just not allowed to work. I continued to do things, just stayed off my feet as much as possible. If I went shopping I would ride a motorized scooter. If I went to a party I sat pretty much the entire time. I had no issues, my cervix was long & rock solid. I really feel that God wanted me to be a mommy! The babies were great! They kicked each other more than they kicked me! People would look at me & could not believe that I had four babies inside me, I tell you I was meant to carry quads! Now don't get me wrong, it was not a joy ride, I was miserable towards the end & felt it very difficult to breathe. I never even went into the hospital prior to January 15th. Even though I asked them to admit me MANY times!! On January 17, 2007 we welcomed our GBGG quads; Camryn, Brendan, Avery & Lindsey into this world. 1 set is fraternal & 1 set is identical. They weighed 4 lb 7 oz, 4 lb 4 oz, 3 lb 6 oz & 3 lb 3 oz. I made it 32 weeks 5 days when I delivered them at St Mary's Medical Center. They were all HEALTHY and they did not need to be intubated! WOO HOO! They were little miracles destined to be here! I had nurses come up to me & tell me how wonderful it was that I carried them so long, that it was a better gift holding onto them as long as I did than a Harvard education! WOW! We were SO happy, excited & most of all unprepared for how much our life was about to change. I will say it was a GOOD change! I cannot imagine my life without them! Everyone watches our little ones in amazement & they still do. This is their story....

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